The Game Changers
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I POSTED this picture at Basketball On The Internet’s Facebook page and it drew such a great reaction, I felt the relationship might warrant further revisitation – if such a word exists.
I’m guessing most of you already know Kareem Abdul-Jabbar ranks among the best basketball players (and athletes of any sport), though the specifics - a record six NBA Most Valuable Player awards, a record 19-time NBA All-Star, a 15-time All-NBA selection, and an 11-time NBA All-Defensive Team member – might not be known to you.
He also was a member of six NBA championship teams as a player and two as an assistant coach, twice named NBA Finals MVP, honoured as one of the 50 Greatest Players in NBA history.
His college coach, John Wooden, ranks among the best basketball coaches (and coaches of any sport) of all time.
In an unprecedented feat, he won 10 NCAA national championships in a 12-year period — seven in a row — as head coach at UCLA.
National Coach of the Year six times, Wooden started as a player and was first to be named basketball All-American three times, winning a Helms Athletic Foundation National Championship at Purdue.
He was the first person enshrined in the Basketball Hall of Fame as a player (in 1961) and as a coach (in 1973) and rightly is one of the most revered coaches in the history of US sports.
“It’s hard to talk about Coach Wooden simply because he was a complex man,” Abdul-Jabbar said recently.
“But he taught in a very simple way - he used sports as a means to teach us how to apply ourselves to any situation. Any success that I’ve had as a parent, I have to give Coach Wooden credit for showing me how it was done.
“He didn’t expect much from us. He just wanted us to do what he did, which was to get our education and learn how to compete according to the rules.
“It made a big difference to us that he never expected us to do anything that he didn’t do. But then again he graduated from Purdue on time and was a consensus All-American, so he set quite an example and it made it possible to understand that we could do it. It took some work and he showed us how to do it.
“He was more like a parent than a coach. He was a selfless and giving human being, but he was a disciplinarian. We learned all about those aspects of life that most kids want to skip over. He wouldn’t let us do that.”
Wooden also has some of the greatest, most inspirational quotes I ever came across as a player, coach and writer. You might like some of these, if you don’t already recognise many…
Good things take time, as they should. We shouldn’t expect good things to happen overnight. Actually, getting something too easily or too soon can cheapen the outcome.
— John Wooden
If you do not have time to do it right, when will you find the time to do it over?
— John Wooden
Ability may get you to the top, but it takes character to keep you there.
— John Wooden
Success is never final. Failure is never fatal. It’s courage that counts.
— John Wooden
Success is piece of mind which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing that you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming.
— John Wooden
The coach is first of all a teacher.
— John Wooden
If you keep too busy learning the tricks of the trade, you may never learn the trade.
— John Wooden
We don’t have to be superstars or win championships . All we have to do is learn to rise to every occasion, give our best effort, and make those around us better as we do it.
— John Wooden
I never yelled at my players much. That would have been artificial stimulation, which doesn’t last very long. I think it’s like love and passion. Passion won’t last as long as love. When you are dependent on passion, you need more and more of it to make it work. It’s the same with yelling.
— John Wooden
I’ve never stopped trying to do what’s right. I’m not doing it to earn favour. I’m doing it because it’s the right thing to do.
— John Wooden
The best competition I have is against myself to become better.
— John Wooden
Time lost is time lost. It’s gone forever. Some people tell themselves that they will work twice as hard tomorrow to make up for what they did not do today. People should always do their best. If they work twice as hard tomorrow, then they should have also worked twice as hard today. That would have been their best.
— John Wooden
Be more concerned with your character than with your reputation. Your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.
— John Wooden
I discovered early on that the player who learned the fundamentals of basketball is going to have a much better chance of succeeding and rising through the levels of competition than the player who was content to do things his own way. A player should be interested in learning why things are done a certain way. The reasons behind the teaching often go a long way to helping develop the skill.
— John Wooden
Let’s face it, we’re all imperfect and we’re going to fall short on occasion. But we must learn from failure and that will enable us to avoid repeating our mistakes. Through adversity, we learn, grow stronger, and become better people.
— John Wooden
Happiness begins where selfishness ends.
— John Wooden
Some of my greatest pleasures have come from finding ways to overcome obstacles.
— John Wooden
We’re all imperfect and we all have needs. The weak usually do not ask for help, so they stay weak. If we recognise that we are imperfect, we will ask for help and we will pray for the guidance necessary to bring positive results to whatever we are doing.
— John Wooden
If I am through learning, I am through.
— John Wooden
Failure is not fatal, but failure to change can be.
— John Wooden
The man who is afraid to risk failure seldom has to face success.
— John Wooden
Remember, results aren’t the criteria for success — it’s the effort made for achievement that is most important.
— John Wooden
Don’t let yesterday take up too much of today.
— John Wooden
Each of us has a huge capacity to learn and to achieve. Being ever alert makes the task of becoming all we are capable of becoming so much easier.
— John Wooden
It is what you learn after you know it all that counts.
— John Wooden
You may be better than the rest, but you are not a success until you have made the effort to become the best you can be.
— John Wooden
Goals achieved with little effort are seldom worthwhile or lasting.
— John Wooden
Players with fight never lose a game; they just run out of time.
— John Wooden
Be most interested in finding the best way, not in having your own way.
— John Wooden
If we fail to adapt, we fail to move forward.
— John Wooden
As long as you try your best, you are never a failure. That is, unless you blame others.
— John Wooden
I grew up on a farm. We learned that there was a season to plant, a season to water, and season to harvest. The planting and watering could be laborious, but without those stages, there would never be a harvest.
— John Wooden
Tell the truth. That way you don’t have to remember a story.
— John Wooden
As I grow older, I appreciate things that I didn’t appreciate much when I was younger. I am thankful more than I used to be. I’ve been reasonably healthy, and I feel blessed. And each morning I can think, this is going to be a good day!
— John Wooden
If we magnified blessings as much as we magnify disappointments, we would all be much happier.
— John Wooden
Much can be accomplished by teamwork when no one is concerned about who gets credit.
— John Wooden
A leader’s most powerful ally is his or her own example.
— John Wooden
Never make excuses. Your friends don’t need them and your foes won’t believe them.
— John Wooden
Approval is a greater motivator than disapproval, but we have to disapprove on occasion when we correct. It’s necessary. I make corrections only after I have proved to the individual that I highly value him. If they know we care for them, our correction won’t be seen as judgmental. I also try to never make it personal.
— John Wooden
Never be disagreeable just because you disagree.
— John Wooden
Be slow to correct and quick to commend.
— John Wooden
Be more concerned with what you can do for others than what others can do for you. You’ll be surprised at the results.
— John Wooden
Don’t permit fear of failure to prevent effort. We are all imperfect and will fail on occasions, but fear of failure is the greatest failure of all.
— John Wooden
I believe we are most likely to succeed when ambition is focused on noble and worthy purposes and outcomes rather than on goals set out of selfishness.
— John Wooden
Being average means you are as close to the bottom as you are to the top.
— John Wooden
You cannot live a perfect day without doing something for another without thought of something in return.
— John Wooden
There is no substitute for work. Worthwhile results come from hard work and careful planning.
— John Wooden
We almost have to force or drive ourselves to work hard if we are to reach our potential. If we don’t enjoy what we do, we won’t be able to push as hard as we need to push for as long as we need to push to achieve our best. However, if we enjoy what we do and if we’re enthusiastic about it, we’ll do it better and come closer to becoming the best we can be.
— John Wooden
Make no mistake, I always want to win, but I never fight with an opponent. My fight is within me — it is the struggle to be the best I can be at whatever I do.
— John Wooden
Kindness makes for much better teamwork.
— John Wooden
We can become great in the eyes of others, but we’ll never become successful when we compromise our character and show disloyalty toward friends or teammates. The reverse is also true: No individual or team will become great without loyalty.
— John Wooden
Concentrate on what you do have, not on what you don’t.
— John Wooden
Regarding balance — it’s the most important component in basketball and it is a very important part of life. We must always keep things in perspective so that we can maintain emotional control.
— John Wooden
Time spent getting even would be better spent getting ahead.
— John Wooden
We are all equal in that we can all strive to become the best we are capable of becoming. We can always improve but we shouldn’t compare ourselves to others. We get in trouble when we start trying to measure up to someone else.
— John Wooden
Don’t let making a living prevent you from making a life.
— John Wooden
I felt that if the players were prepared, we would do just fine. If we won, great — frosting on the cake. But at no time did I consider winning to be the cake. Winning has always been the frosting that made the cake a little tastier.
— John Wooden
There is nothing stronger than gentleness.
— John Wooden
Sincerity may not help us make friends, but it will help us keep them.
— John Wooden
We can give without loving, but we can’t love without giving. In fact, love is nothing unless we give it to someone.
— John Wooden
In life, worthwhile accomplishments and acquisitions take time. Usually the better the reward, the more time it takes to acquire it.
— John Wooden
We should never let ambition cause us to sacrifice our integrity or diminish our efforts in other areas. However, we need to remember that we never reach a serious goal unless we have the intention of doing so.
— John Wooden
The person who is afraid to risk failure seldom has to face success. I expected my players to make mistakes, as long as they were mistakes of commission. A mistake of commission happens when you are doing what should be done but don’t get the results you want.
— John Wooden
Each of us must make the effort to contribute to the best of our ability according to our individual talents. And then we put all the individual talents together for the highest good of the group. … Understanding that the good of the group comes first is fundamental to being a highly productive member of a team.
— John Wooden
I believe correcting is the positive approach. I believe in the positive approach. Always have.
— John Wooden
When you improve a little each day, eventually big things occur… . Not tomorrow, not the next day, but eventually a big gain is made. Don’t look for the big, quick improvement. Seek the small improvement one day at a time. That’s the only way it happens — and when it happens, it lasts.
— John Wooden
The close games are usually lost, rather than won. What I mean by that is games are mostly won because of the opponent making mistakes during crucial moments.
— John Wooden
Failing to prepare is preparing to fail.
— John Wooden
There are little details in everything you do, and if you get away from any one of the little details, you’re not teaching the thing as a whole. For it is little things which, together, make the whole. This, I think, is extremely important.
— John Wooden
Be quick but don’t hurry.
— John Wooden
Make each day a masterpiece.
— John Wooden
You are no better than anyone else and no one is better than you.
— John Wooden
Have character; don’t be one.
— John Wooden
Do not mistake activity for achievement.
— John Wooden
You can do more good by being good than any other way.
— John Wooden
Acquire peace of mind by making the effort to become the best of which you are capable.
— John Wooden
You discipline those under your supervision to correct, to help, to improve — not to punish.
— John Wooden
The more concerned we become over the things we can’t control, the less we will do with the things we can control.
— John Wooden
Perfection is what you are striving for, but perfection is an impossibility. However, striving for perfection is not an impossibility. Do the best you can under the conditions that exist. That is what counts.
— John Wooden
You can always look back and see where you might have done something differently, changed this or that. If you can learn something, fine, but never second-guess yourself. It’s wasted effort… . Does worrying about it, complaining about it, change it? Nope, it just wastes your time. And if you complain about it to other people, you’re also wasting their time. Nothing is gained by wasting all of that time.
— John Wooden
Many athletes have tremendous God-given gifts, but they don’t focus on the development of those gifts. Who are these individuals? You’ve never heard of them — and you never will. It’s true in sports and it’s true everywhere in life. Hard work is the difference. Very hard work.
— John Wooden
Don’t measure yourself by what you’ve accomplished, but rather by what you should have accomplished with your abilities.
— John Wooden
We get stronger when we test ourselves. Adversity can make us better. We must be challenged to improve, and adversity is the challenger.
— John Wooden
Leadership is the ability to get individuals to work together for the common good and the best possible results while at the same time letting them know they did it themselves.
— John Wooden
Knowledge alone is not enough to get desired results. You must have the more elusive ability to teach and to motivate. This defines a leader; if you can’t teach and you can’t motivate, you can’t lead.
— John Wooden
Practice self-discipline and keep emotions under control. Good judgment and common sense are essential.
— John Wooden
Cultivate the ability to make decisions and think alone. Do not be afraid of failure, but learn from it.
— John Wooden
Profound responsibilities come with teaching and coaching. You can do so much good–or harm. It’s why I believe that next to parenting, teaching and coaching are the two most important professions in the world. — John Wooden